Monday, November 15, 2021

Self-Care Rewards

 In my last post, I discussed the importance of self-care and how to start managing your own self-care in your life.  I encouraged everyone to take an active approach to achieving self-care by making a written contract with yourself which focuses on your goals and how you will reward yourself for earning each of those goals.  


Now for the rewards, my favorite part.  I have compiled a list of rewards that complement the self-care goals that I have set for myself as well as those that I encourage you to do.  They range in price from below $10 to $150 each, but each are well worth the money for the amount of self-care they will help provide.  Only you can decide the amount that you are willing to spend on your own well-being.  Plus, as my mother says, you deserve it.


Below $25

Posh Pocket  Adult Coloring Book 


This pocket coloring book is just what you need for relaxing and meditating after a long day.  I have one similar to this one, and I use it not only at home but also when I travel.  Sometimes adults need an activity when traveling in the car along with the kids.






I don't know about you, but I like to have a choice when it comes to the mouth of a water bottle.  This combination pack has you covered for all of your drinking needs.  







I have never slept with an eye mask to block out the light, but I have used them for migraines.  This sleep mask comes with removable gel pads that can be heated or cooled depending on your needs.  I might just get this one so that I have a beautiful backup.






I have several pairs of leggings, but none to the caliber of these soft babies.  These leggings are great for yoga, lounging around the house, or getting through security at the airport.






VegNews Magazine has to be my all-time favorite food magazine.  However, it is not just about food.  It's articles highlight the plant-based lifestyle from food to cosmetics, travel, and more.  I learn something new every time I pick up this magazine.





Moleskines were my first papery addiction.  I love writing in them, and they are perfect for journaling and reflection.  However, the paper can be thin, so avoid using a fountain pen in this expanded version of my favorite journal.



Less than $50



Nothing goes better with meditation than a wonderful candle.  Homesick candles are scented according to fond memories.  I am anxious to try this one which smells of New Orleans (hopefully Uptown and not the French Quarter), my second home and first love.





When it comes to the world of yoga, Gaiam is one of the best brands.  Not only do the beautiful mats make you want to lie in the happy baby pose all day long, but they support you fully as you move from mountain pose to downward dog.  I love my own mat that I purchased during my first attempt at self-care during COVID-19 last year.





If you are anything like me, you burn to a crisp in the sun.  I am sure it is a combination of medications plus the fact that you can use my legs as a night light at bedtime.  In order to keep me from burning to a crisp during outside swimming, I use a rash guard swimsuit with an SPF of 50+.  This swimsuit from Daci has been on my wishlist since summer.  I just love the colors!






I have done a lot of research on water bottles lately, and this one keeps topping everyone's list of vacuum sealed, dual insulated stainless steel water bottles.  I am not sure that I can bring myself to pay this much for a water bottle, but I'm worth it, right?







Women's Health rank these tennis shoes as the best walking shoe with memory foam.  At just over $40, it is a steal!  I wish I had done some research before buying my recent pair of not-so-wonderful Skechers Go Walk shoes.  This one will be purchased before my next big vacation.




Greater than $50


Who doesn't like to listen to music or audiobooks when they work out?  These noise-cancelling ear buds are just what you need for that morning jog on the treadmill or that 6-hour cross-country commute.  






For me, nothing excites the brain more than a good book.  While I do not have an Audible subcription yet, I hope to get one soon.  Then I will be able to listen to Harry Potter while reading Harry Potter (not to mention watching Harry Potter).  Sometimes, a good book is all you need to relax the mind and soothe the soul.   One of my friends swears by audiobooks, so why not go with the best source out there.


I hope that you find all of these self-care rewards useful.  Sometimes, not knowing how to reward yourself can be a stumbling block to achieving a goal.  And remember that all rewards do not have to be tangible.  You can work toward a stay-cation or a trip to the spa, whatever trips your trigger.  Just be sure that you have a whole list of rewards for the next time you achieve a self-care goal.























The Necessity of Self-Care

During these times that try men's souls (COVID-19), I have struggled to take care of my own well-being.  Sure, I go to my doctor appointments and take my medicine, but I realized that staying at home all the time was mentally, physically, and spiritually draining.  Things that I used to do to take care of my mind, body, and soul are no longer readily available.  After struggling with a bit of depression, as I am sure most of us have, I decided that I needed to start caring for my whole self.  This takes a little more effort than going for a pedicure or brunch with the girls, but doesn't everything during a pandemic?  


To begin, I pulled out my trusty Bullet Journal to search for empty spaces in my month that I fill with self-care activities.  I know that I am more likely to do an activity if I assign it a time in my calendar and actually write down the activity in my BuJo.  I discoverd that I have more time in the day than I actually realized.  Some days, I can allot 30 minutes.  Others, several hours.  Next, I created a Self-Care Bingo board for my Bullet Journal.  To do this, I thought about all the ways that I can care for myself in order to rejuvenate.  These activities ranged from painting my nails and reading a magazine to prepping for healthy meals and practicing yoga.  I encourage you to find 25 things that you enjoy or need to do to establish the practice of self-care.  Thirdly, I picked 7 habits that I want to practice during the span of 4 months.  With those 7 habits, I created a SMART goal (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) for each habit and a reward that I would give myself once I accomplished each goal.  Finally, I wrote a contract in my Bullet Journal in order to bind myself to achieving these goals along with the rewards which I would freely give to myself upon completion.  


What started out as a worthy idea quickly became a plan for self-care.  If you do not take care of yourself, then no one will.  You are worth the time and effort that it takes to organize these ideas and carry them out.  You will love and cherish your own well-being and will set a great example for the others in your life.  During this next week, I encourage you to create your own Self-Care BINGO board and Self-Care Contract.  To get you started, I have created Free Bullet Journal Printables of my BINGO board and Self-Care Contract.  Fell free to download these and add them to your BuJo, or better yet, use them as a spring board for your own.  


Self- Care BINGO Board







I hope that you will use these templates to create your own journey into the world of self-care.  Like always, you can find all of my FREE BuJo printables at the link on the right hand side of this page.  Feel free to download, print, use, or adapt them to suit your own needs.  Stay healthy!








Tuesday, November 2, 2021

Thankful November

 When I think of November, the first thought that comes into my mind is Thanksgiving.  But not what is the purpose of Thanksgiving except to be thankful for all that you have.  Being mindful of gratitude is a special skill that one has to develop; it doesn't just come naturally for most.   Last year I participated in a group activity called "Thankful November."  Each day, we were given a journal prompt which helped us to explore our lives and the latent gratitude that we have in our lives and for our lives.  Through this daily exercise, I gained a new perspective on life.  I recognized the importance of practicing gratitued daily, even for the small things.  Now, I keep a daily gratitude log in my Bullet Journal Weekly Layout.  I simply write one thing I am grateful for each day, and at the end of the year, I will have a list of 365 items for which I am grateful.  So, I encourage each of you to find time in your day to answer the following prompts in your Thankful November journal so that you, too, can begin to find your own path to gratitude.


Journal Prompts for Thankful November 2021

1. Who is someone special that has taught you about unconditional love?  What did they teach you?  How can you show unconditional love to someone else?  To yourself?

2.  What five personality traits are you most thankful for?

3.  What about your upbringing are you most grateful for?  How has it influenced your life?

4.  Write about the family members you are thankful for?  What makes each one special?

5.  List five things you are currently doing well.

6.  Who or what in your life are you happy to have let go?  Why?  How has your life improved since?

7.  List three good things that have suddenly caught your attention that make your feel grateful.

8.  Whom do you take for granted? How can you show your appreciation for that person?

9.  Name five things that always put a smile on your face.

10.  What possessions do you own that make your life easier?

11.  List three things that you love about your favorite room in your home?  Why are these your favorite?  Do they make life easier or more enjoyable?

12.  Focus on your five senses.  What can you do to make yourself more mindful of each of the senses?

13.  Do you have a special relationship with your pet?  In what ways can you thank your pet for all of the joy and comfort that it brings to you?

14.  What about your career or job are you most thankful for?

15.  Create a list of twenty ways you are fortunate.

16.  What meals/recipes do you enjoy making?  Why do you enjoy it?  What does this meal give you?

17.  Write about a time when someone went out of their way to help you.

18.  Describe your favorite moment of the day.

19.  Has anyone ever performed a random act of kindness for you?  Write about that experience.

20.   Do you have a favorite hobby?  What does that hobby create in you?  

21.  Write about something you did to make someone happy today.

22.  When was a time you were successful?  Write a thank you speech to the people who helped you achieve that success.

23.  Describe something good that you saw in your community.

24.  Where is somewhere that you have been that you are thankful for?

25.  What is someone or something that makes you feel safe?

26.  Which public servic or organization are you most grateful for?

27.  Write about a family tradition that you are thankful for.

28.  Describe the piece of clothing that you are most grateful for.

29.  Explain the role of gratitude in your life.

30.  In what ways can you be more mindful of gratitude?


Happy Thankful November!